Jun 9I Am FromI am from the sunlit coasts of Puerto Rico, carried on a balmy trade wind, From flamboyan trees and coquí choruses whispered to me in lullabies. I am from the Chicago suburbs, 1980s sprawl, the chatter of cicadas in the summer nights. I am from the sizzling of pernil on…Identity2 min readIdentity2 min read
Published inDadwell·Jun 12, 2022Dads with Daughters PodcastLearning from creative dads with Antonio García In August 2021, I got to switch roles — from podcast host to podcast guest — when I sat down with Dr. Christopher Lewis for the Dads with Daughters podcast. Chatting with Lewis, a veteran parenting blogger and co-founder of the nonprofit Fathering…Fatherhood11 min readFatherhood11 min read
Published inUX Collective·Jun 24, 2021In support of the next design nationAnswers to questions from design school graduates. — Back in May 2020 I was invited by Design Nation, an offshoot of Princeton University’s Business Today, to field an executive seminar with about a dozen design students and recent design school graduates. The students were brilliant, curious and understandably anxious about entering an already fast-paced industry during a time…Design13 min readDesign13 min read
Jun 2, 2021To the Graduating Class of 2021Some perspective and principles for high school scholars — What’s good Young People of Earth? With the pandemic, politics, protests, police brutality and college pursuits hanging in the balance, you might be thinking: not much is good right now. I feel that. But you might also be saying (and I really hope you are): “Man, these adults have really…Commencement4 min readCommencement4 min read
Aug 14, 2020Stepping Aside From AIGATwo months after being elected co-president, I made a choice. Today Two months after being named co-president of AIGA Chicago, I’m stepping aside—not down—and looking forward to what’s next. Next for the board, the chapter, the community, and myself. Of course I feel a bit sheepish leaving my new post so…Aiga4 min readAiga4 min read
Published inDadwell·Jun 21, 2020A Pandemic Father’s Day ReflectionFinding Your Parenting Mantra — Reflection & Gratitude. The Dadwell Podcast debuted on Father’s Day 2019. Producing and hosting 25 episodes, I’ve learned an incredible amount about myself and my role as partner and parent. All of which was made possible by humble, honest men who shared their strengths and struggles as entrepreneurs, creators and dads — through…Fatherhood4 min readFatherhood4 min read
Published inAIGA Chicago·May 31, 2020Prejudice. Pain. And Compassion.A message of solidarity and a call to action from AIGA Chicago — It’s a designer’s nature to question the world. It’s our responsibility to attempt to understand and solve the problems impacting individuals and systems. It’s human nature to console and comfort those around us. America has witnessed yet another week of unbearable ugliness and violence. We’ve bared witness to incredible —…Chicago2 min readChicago2 min read
Published inDadwell·Mar 21, 2020Creativity, Entrepreneurship, and Parenting in a PandemicA personal reflection on COVID-19, social distancing, and sheltering in place with kids. — “If the problem can be solved, why worry? If the problem cannot be solved, worrying will do you no good.“ –Shantideva COVID-19 is sparking our two greatest human fears: the fear of being alone and the fear of death. And as parents, there’s a third fear as we contemplate our…Covid-196 min readCovid-196 min read
Feb 27, 2020The “Pipeline Problem” Is a MythWhat to do when all your design applicants are homogeneous — As the former VP of Diversity & Inclusion for AIGA Chicago, I’m still approached by lots of well-intentioned hiring managers and group directors motivated to diversify their design teams but frustrated their job posts aren’t yielding the creatives of color, queer creatives, and female creatives they’re seeking. Inevitably, as I…Diversity And Inclusion5 min readDiversity And Inclusion5 min read
Oct 17, 2019My Biggest MistakeIt’s impossible to share our mistakes without talking about regret or pain or loss. But it’s also possible to talk about them as lessons learned, facts found, and truths revealed…. In 2019, I was invited to share my “biggest mistake” in front of 275 people as part of a special…Life Lessons4 min readLife Lessons4 min read